There are have been MANY years where I have struggled in my relationship, not had the BEST health, years I have gone to work feeling like a “hamster on a wheel” totally UN-inspired and stressed, and MANY MANY years where finances where tight and I KNEW in my gut I was capable of far MORE!
Ever felt ANY of that?
Trust me you are not alone (sadly!)
IF you felt RELIEF hearing that you are not alone – that’s GOOD and BAD! It’s good because you don’t want to feel like you are the only one struggling, but it’s BAD because we have this bizarre from of “social bonding” where we love to get together and commiserate about just how shitty our marriages and jobs are, how stressed we are financially and how it seems everyone else is getting ahead – EXCEPT US!!! The danger in that is if you CONTINUE to hang around OTHER people who are all as miserable, uninspired and as BROKE as YOU – you will ALLLLLL continue to go NOWHERE!!
“You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with,” motivational speaker Jim Rohn
Think about that for a moment.
IF you aspire for MORE…you have to break away from the pack that’s going nowhere fast and get around NEW people who are LIVING the life you aspire to live, even if it’s just listening to an audio or watching a motivational YouTube video. You have to create CHANGE. The minute I did this…learning from the WINNERS, from those living the LIFESTYLE I craved…everything in my life started to change for the better.
“For things to change, you have to change.” Jim Rohn
This isn’t as hard as it sounds, but it does take reflection, being HONEST with yourself about where you are AND where you really truly want to be, and a decision to ACTUALLY do something different (over and over and over again) in order to create the relationship, the income, the passion, the LIFE you KNOW you should be leading!!!
How do you start? With ACTION. Start with baby steps in the direction of where you want to be!
When I was rebuilding my broken marriage it took CHANGE – from ME first! When I wanted to get healthier and feel better – I needed to CHANGE what I was eating to healthier options and exercise daily (even if it was only for 20 min). When I was ready to level up my income, get out of debt and replace my corporate salary I had to create CHANGE by layering in a #SideHustle that would provide the EXTRA I needed. ALL of those things took learning, growing and consistent action repeated over time AND MAN OH MAN where they ALLLLLL ever worth it! To be THRIVING in all areas of my life today because of a DECISION to CHANGE is something I WISH for EVERYONE to experience as you become a NEW & improved version of yourself – which ripples into every aspect of your life!
If you aren’t where you want to be yet! If you are SO SICK AND TIRED of being SICK AND TIRED….that’s a NEON flashing sign your body is giving you to pull yourself together and change so the REAL you that’s buried inside can SHINE THROUGH.
Are you ready to create change?
Are you ready to level up?
What areas do you need help in?
Make 2019 your BEST year yet! Your future self with thank you (a million times over).
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Thank you for being a part of this journey. Never stop believing one person can make a difference… that one person is YOU!
With love and gratitude,